Are Men really the new Women?0

When females said men are the new women I used take offense and feel some type of way about it. But upon looking into the matter I realized that there is some truth to the statement. I myself am not exempt, but in an effort to become a better man I am trying hard to…

become the best man that I can be with the tools and knowledge that I have been given, learning everyday how to become a better man.

Here’s a few examples that I found that hold true pretty much across the board.

1. Men gossip, and they gossip a lot. Gossip has always been apart of men’s life. Back in the day it was just barbershop/locker room exclusive for the most part, but now it has become almost as important to men as it is to women. Men call each other and talk on the phone about the latest gossip, men can also be found starting gossip. This is kind of a new concept. Men of the past were too busy working and trying to provide to worry about the goings on of others.

2. The sensitive role has become the go to role. Sensitivity is one of those dangerous traits where you have to have just the right amount. If you have too much you will be considered soft and nobody likes a soft man. If you have too little you will be looked at as cold and unapproachable. Lately guys have opted to go the soft role and show a plethora of emotions.

3. Last but not least, with different sexual preferences and ways of life being widely accepted, men have become lazy and way comfortable with being anything less than manly. Not saying that everyone has to be the macho man but having a balance is key.

Now there is nothing wrong if anything stated describes you or you find yourself doing these things. You just have to understand that men being the new women does hold true on some levels. But with that being said also comes the inverse of the argument…Women are the new Men.